I knew Sam Tierney through Ethan Konchar, Amy’s old boyfriend. Ethan and I met at Pomona but didn’t get to know each other until senior year, when we joined Mufti. I don’t want to talk about Mufti. It’s one of those secret society things people sign up for when they think their bright college days are slipping away. We played witty practical jokes around campus: it wasn’t really my scene. But I liked Ethan. He’s extremely smart but also more generally one of those people you meet at these institutions who is like some NBA-level example of realized human